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This information was written by Bob Grant, founder of RelationshipHeadquarters.com.

Whenever I speak with a new client there is always a challenge. This challenge is that I must manage to get enough information, while at the same time giving the client something helpful. To give someone information that is truly helpful, a counselor needs to understand that person, the details of their situation and a little bit of their history.

This is not an easy thing to accomplish in the first session. However, there is one thing that I have noticed with my female clients that believe it or not nearly all of them do. Yet, they never realize they are doing it. Often I notice them doing this in the first visit, and they are surprised that I make such an issue of it. Part of the reason that I have to point their behavior out to them is that it actually comes across as unattractive to men. So what is this insight about what women do that men find unattractive?

Most women don’t receive compliments well.

Actually, a more honest statement would be that most women are terrible at receiving compliments. They don’t want others to think they are arrogant, snobby or even worse – a bitch. But in an attempt not to appear conceited, they fail to understand how they appear to a man.

When a man compliments you, he’s actually giving you something – like a flower or a gift. If you minimize his words, he feels like you are belittling his gift. If you do that enough, you’ll train him not to give to you. In effect, you’re telling him you don’t believe the nice thing he said about you. He won’t think you’re being humble. Instead, he’ll soon believe that he was mistaken to believe you’re wonderful.

So what should you do?

When a man compliments you, smile and simply say “thank you.” Oh, I realize it sounds simple, and it is. But if you begin doing this, you’ll find that you may feel very vulnerable. To receive a compliment can be unnerving. It takes practice. But from a man’s perspective, it conveys confidence and is very attractive.

Bob Grant is a Clinically trained Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years experience, Media Expert on Relationships and Men, and the Best-Selling Author of 4 Books:

* The Woman Men Adore -   Click Here

* How Do I Get Him Back -   Click Here

* What Husbands Can’t Resist -  Click Here

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I have read both The Women Men Adore and Find the Man of Your Dreams and I they both contain very good information.

I think The Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave is a book every woman should read and would benefit from, it’s good for anyone looking for a new relationship or wanting to improve an existing relationship.  I have even given it to my teenage daughters to read because I want them have the information that can help them have the happiest relationships possible.

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams is great for nailing down what qualities you would like to have in your perfect partner and determining what thoughts and habits you have that might be stopping you from finding the man of your dreams.

Feel free to click on the links above to review the books in more detail and see what special bonuses are included with them.

If you have a friend who could use a little help in the romance department then please share this with them…life is too short to waste one more minute lonely or in a relationship that is anything less than a celebration of life!

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Do you keep attracting the wrong type of people into your life.

Are you having trouble finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?

How would you like to change your luck and learn how to attract your perfect mate!

By now just about everyone has heard of the Law of Attraction, creating in your life what you desire.  Most people associate this with money, but it works for anything…love included.

The key to getting what you want is to know what you want.  In the book, How to Find the Man of Your Dreams, author Bob Grant says you need to clearly define what traits you are looking for in your perfect person.  Take 5 minutes and brainstorm, write down anything you can think of that you would find attractive in your perfect mate.  When you’re done narrow it down to the three you feel are most important.

Be sure to think in terms of positive thoughts, for example you should say, “I want someone who has a happy, positive attitude,” instead of, “I don’t want someone who fights or argues all the time.”  You will attract what you think about, and if you are thinking about what you don’t want that is exactly what you will end up getting.

I love the true story of just how fast the law of attraction can work to attract someone into your life in this infomercial for the popular set of cd’s titled “Your Wish is Your Command – How to Manifest Your Desires”.

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You’ve heard the saying that the definition of insanity it doing the same things over and over again, expecting different results.  If you want something in your life to change you have to change something in your life…which usually starts with what you think.  If you’re not happy with the people you’ve been dating then you need to figure out where the problem is.

I’ve read these books and I think they’re right-on for helping determine what might be stopping you from finding your perfect partner, I highly recommend taking the time to check them out.

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams

The Women Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave

I’ve also listened to Your Wish is Your Command, learning the real secret to using the law of attraction is something everyone could benefit from.  I only wish I had listened to it months ago.  Watch the video above and then go to http://mindshiftrevolution.info/your-wish-is-your-command to read the story behind the creation of Your Wish is Your Command.

Wishing you success!

Some people believe that there is a soulmate for everyone, others do not.  I’d like to hear what you think…is there such thing as a soulmate?  What is a soulmate?  Do you have one or have you found yours yet? 

Here are a few quotes about soulmates to help get you started.

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“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
~Aristotle

“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”
~Emily Brontë

“Ah! a blessing beyond all fate
My sole mate ’tis my soul mate.”
~Pixie Foudre

“Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.”
~Zora Neale Hurston

“Soul meets soul on lovers’ lips.”
~Percy Bysshe Shelley

“For twas not into my ear you whispered
But into my heart
Twas not my lips you kissed
But my soul”
~Judy Garland

“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.”
~about courtship with Leslie Parrish – Richard Bach

“Run your fingers through my soul. For once, just once, feel exactly what I feel, believe what I believe, perceive as I perceive, look, experience, examine, and for once; just once, understand.”

“Love is the life of the soul. It is the harmony of the universe.”
~William Ellery Channing

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.  A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”
~ Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia)

“And when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight even for a moment.” 
~ Plato 2,500 years ago

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P.S.  Please feel free to share other quotes that you know of as well.

Click here for a step-by-step plan for finding the love of your life.

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The secret to understanding men - and using it to your advantage.

The Women Men Adore…
and Never Want to Leave

The secret to understanding men – and using it to your advantage by Bob Grant, The Relationship Doctor

As a woman, you have the power to make a man fall in love with you, to influence his thoughts, make him want to spend time with you and please you.

Read this eye-opening article, Understanding Men Relationship Tips, and discover how to tap into that power.

In that article you’ll be able to read a chapter from, “The Women Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave.”  There’s a free report available, too, on the free chapter page, “How to Be Irresistably Sexy to Men: A Man’s Perspective.”  There’s also a link at the bottom of the page to a great relationship blog.

Here are 3 quick tips for looks that men love…remember, men are very visual, use it to your advantage:

1. Most men prefer long hair, they find it especially sexy pulled back in a ponytail exposing the back of the neck.
2. Wear a dress whenever possible, you’ll act and feel more feminine which men love.
3. Wear heels.  They don’t have to be very high, but men love to watch the way women walk in heels.

I have had this book for a couple years and I love it.  Life is so much more fun when you know these little secrets.

I have another book of Bob Grant’s that I thought was really good, too.  It’s called, “How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.”  It’s a step-by-step system for finding the man of your dreams.  It can be found on the sidebar of my website, www.bestromancesecrets.com, in the Relationship category.

Enjoy!